What would you do if you really like this guy but its taking eons for him to drop hints of asking you out? Well, perhaps it’s high time that you go and ask him for that date!

 

Of course, it’s easier said than done! This explains why most girls prefer to just sit this one out and continue waiting in vain!

 

Asking a guy out for a date is perhaps one of the hardest things for a girl to do. Why? Because we are in a society that says that guys are supposed to ask the girl out and not the other way around. When a girl defies this rule, she is considered a deviant.

 

But the truth is that you can ask a guy for a date anytime you want! You have all the equipment you need to make this work! All that you need now is that certain charm, an effective strategy, and some words of encouragement to get you started.

 

To help you in this quest, here are top ten tips to ask your dream guy for a romantic dinner:

 

10. Right place

 

One of the first tricks is to know where the guy is. He could be in the mall, on the school campus, at the movies, in the park, or somewhere you know he frequents. This will give you an opportunity to chat with him and will also give you a peek into his interests.

 

Of course, you do not want to look like a stalker so remember to do it with flare. Simply pretend that you just happen to be in the area doing some errands. From there, try some small talk to lead into your big question.

 

9. Right time

 

It is all in the timing.

If you ask a guy out while he is busy preparing a presentation, chances are that he will decline. So make sure that you catch him in his free time.

 

Here’s an idea: if your man is into books, go to his favorite coffee shop and wait for him. Make sure that you bring a book that he had already read. When you see him, try to strike up a conversation about one of the best-selling books. Ask him what he thinks of it. Then simply pretend that you’re in a hurry; but before leaving, tell him: “I wish I could talk some more with you about this book. Perhaps we can chat some more over coffee tomorrow.”

 

8. Take the Initiative

 

As the saying goes, if you want it, then go and get it! The same goes when asking a guy out. If you really like a guy, then you should take the first step. Instead of waiting for light years, it’s about time that you take matters into your own hands.

 

Simply go up to him and ask him if he wants to go out with you.

 

7. Small Talk

 

Small talk goes a long way!

 

If you are still summoning all your courage to ask him out, then you can start by making a little chat. You can talk about simple things like the weather or about the news today. Whatever it is, make sure that the conversation is light and pleasant.

 

Try to make him comfortable. This will help break the ice and keep you from getting nervous.

 

6. Make an eye contact

 

This is strategy is perfect if you’re at a bar or even at a party.

 

Most of these places tend to be very loud, which makes it difficult to get the chance to talk to him clearly. As such, create a conversation by looking him in the eye.

 

When doing this, make sure that you do not make him too uncomfortable by staring at him for hours without even blinking. You don’t want to be tagged as a psycho! A few simple glances every now and then will do the trick. Make sure you flash a beautiful smile when you do this.

 

5. Flirting

 

Flirting is one of the best ways to let a guy know that you want to ask him out. Follow these simple top ten flirting tips to help you loosen up and learn the priceless art of flirting.

 

This could mean lightly touching him on the arm or simply laughing at his jokes. Remember to be discreet yet playful.

 

4. Be witty

 

There is absolutely nothing that can turn on a guy more than a sexy brain!

 

Guys just love girls who are smart and witty. Remember the word smart not geeky! Do not intimidate or bore him rocket science information or with your mathematical prowess. Instead, respond wittily to his questions whenever you are having a conversation with him.

 

3. Look beautiful

 

Think about this. If you were a guy, would you agree to go out with someone who does not appear to care about her looks?

 

The fact is that guys are first attracted to your physical appearance. No matter how smart you are, you can easily turn off a guy if you have absolutely no sense of style. The way you look sends him signals. As such, be conscious of what you wear or what your hair looks like, without being vain or conceited.

 

2. Use your charm

 

Make him a date proposal that he cannot resist!

Use your charm! This is one of your best weapons, so use it.

 

Your charm could be a simple smile, your charisma, or even your skills. For example, you can ask him to go for a dinner and then surprise him by serving a home cooked meal. The food as well as your skills will surely impress him. Apart from this, he will appreciate the effort.

 

1. Be prepared

 

After using these effective strategies,

make sure that you prepare by planning where and when you two will go out. You can ask him if he wants to go to a restaurant, a movie, or a cozy coffee shop.

 

Another important point to remember is that you should pay for that date. Unless he insists, never forget that you were the one who asked for the date so you should shoulder the restaurant bill. If he hesitates, compromise and offer to pay the other half.